
There is a traditional print hung on the column to the left of Elizabeth where a peasant from Fraga, my dad’s hometown, is carrying a basin full of water. But the protagonists of the picture are Elizabeth, Finin and Conchita. Finin and Conchita are my dad’s sisters who are 95 and 97 years old. They are living together their “over time” in their life’s as best as they can at Finin’s apartment. Finin bought the yellow tablecloth in Russia back in the days when she loved traveling in her vacation off duty from her work as a secretary at the regional government in Zaragoza.
Both know Elizabeth as Isabela, and they find Elizabeth very accomplished and both admire her various skills to the level of believing she could be playing at the Davis Cup tournament.
They have long conversations regardless of Elizabeth’s understanding of the language. Finin fell in love with the choice of jewelry of Elizabeth that evening.

We took the elevator but when my sisters and myself were kids, every Saturday we’d have lunch at Finin’s and my Grandma’s. My Grandmother Maria was a gifted cook. There were not enough trays to feed her hungry grandchildren. We could hardly walk back home what our full bellies. In our pockets, we would have our allowance that she would give us in a secret ritual hiding the coins to not be seen by the other siblings. We all got the same but she like the privacy kept in this transaction.

My mom and Nuria have moved to live with my sister Lola. Both are happily ever after in a familiar space where we grew up and many of the neighbors in the 11 floors building are still there.
Lola cooked the turkey and Gemma made the sauces. Nuria took care of a salad. We sat to have dinner at 9pm, by the way. Dinners in Spain are light when you stay at home unless there is a celebration. They treated us with a Thanksgiving dinner to recreate the US festivity.


Samia who lives 4 floors above my aunts, takes good care of them. She treated us with a plate of cookies baked Moroccan style. Tánger is her hometown and she and her family migrated to Spain in the late 90′. They are warm and lovely. Lola and my mom made the delicious chocolate truffles.